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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
I was in a relationship for 4 years and last year decided to endthe relationship. We have remained close friends and there is nobad blood or awkwardness. This is how I broke up with him and howwe remained friends. I broke up with 'Roger' (Name changed) face to face. This is theonly way to do it to...
Tell him to get lost, you two had your chance, but you chose to leave each other.tell his current girlfriend He's your ex for a reason. Stay away.
Well, act hard to get at first. You don't want to ignore him too much though because then he'll think your over him:) Teach him a lesson,make sure he learns that leaving you or doing you wrong was a bad choice that way you can sure he wont do it again.
Its different for everyone, I however found out I couldn't move on, so I took action, and now she is by my side. Try it, just take action d and whatever happens DO NOT GIVE UP or settle for less. You will never forget about someone you love but the ONLY way to move on is to cut off all contact...
Get some counseling to find out why you are so eager to continue an abusive relationship. It is a mystery why so many women love men who abuse them. He uses you when he has no one else to use at the moment. You should realize he's doing the same thing to the other women in his life. He will never...
Don't think back on the relationship, because that will only makeyou even more upset. This is because you only look back on the goodmemories. Preoccupy yourself with different things. Go out for awalk, enjoy nature, go to an art exhibit, hang out with your bestfriends, buy yourself that something...
doesnt evry grl want to kno? haha well depends who HE is... and how old he is... the most common could be sumthing w/ the family... w/ my bf i always wonder if hes ok if he isn't the same as bfor but it could always just be him acting up a lil... hopefuly he'll come back to his self! :) may ur...
The reason I believe someone would keep fallin for the same person over and over again is because they might think they cant get anyone better. Also they might do it because they don't know how to get out of the realtionship. Well let's not look on the bad side. Another reason they might continue to...
Asterix123 says: If you regret lying to him, you should tell him that you are sorry and (if he doesn't already know) reveal to him the lies that you made. Make sure that he definitely knows you are sorry, and ask for his forgiveness- promising him you'll never do it again. If he doesn't think you...
Not if you make yourself forget him/her. Not saying you should lose all love/ former love for him/her, just don't try to make every single thing that you notice relate to him/her. If you hang onto everything they you remember about them then yea, it would be.
Only if your ex is still interested in you, if he/she is, try your best in getting them back.
Sounds like he had some problems. If it is bad enough please tell someone. Parents can actually help out a lot in cases like this.
Show your ex that you're stronger and don't let him hurt you! You are a strong, independent, self-empowered individual who can conquer the world! Your ex is only getting satisfaction out of your pain, so reverse the power by hurdling over them and their selfish ways!
A guy should only get 2 chances. If he really wanted you then he would of thought about it the first time and not of done it again. If he did something to you once, and he he tried to do it again but you caught him, he not worth it. Dump him, there's more guys out there for you.
When someone does not want you but you want them, you must take back your power and not want them any more, I know that's not easy! but if he was meant for you then you would still be together, if not then he's not meant for you! It's nothing about you or what you have or have not done! It's just...
tell them to pick if they love you they'll pick you if thy don't you and his wife are being used and you should get out of there .
Answer .You should just let him go or if your not shy just ask him back out and tell him how you feel.
Answer .Hes proboblt just lieng to uand whants to get some thing from you .
Well Tbh If Your Ex Truley Loved You And You Truley Loved Him Then Your Always Going To Have Some Sort Of Feelings For Him? May Not Be Love But Still Something , Right? Why Do You Ask Such A Question? - Only You Will Know If You Still Love Eachother? My Ex Hates The F*** Out Of Me, Telling Me To Die...
I suggest you be more specific in asking what you should do about your ex girlfriend: do you want her back? does she want you back?, etc...
when you feel like you know the person like he's your bro or sis. If you don't even know him then well not true love. sure there sometimes true love when you see the person but try to get to know him
If my best friend were to lie on my, I would tell them to get off. If they were lieing about me or to me, I would ask why. i would tell them to lie to me again and see what happens if not just no second chances.
Because the rude ones have not learned proper consideration or manners properly from their parents.
Narcissist refers to a person having overestimation of his or her own appearance and abilities and has an excessive need for admiration. So if he or she is telling people that his or her ex wants to come back, it has two reasons: he or she is telling the truth OR he or she just wants other people...
Not if bff wants to stay your bff. Too confusing. Her relationship will be the biggest and hopefully best part of her life. You won't be able to share in that for sometime because it is an area that causes a rift...so you guys would have to avoid that...and before you know it natural distance. If...
well do you still like him? if your unsure make him prove that he likes you in some way? Hope that Helps A 2 Q on the top :yes and he was proving that he likes me alot well i like this other guy to and i dont know who to pick???
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! You CANNOT, I repeat, CANNOT get back together with her. Her baby's daddy is the man in her life now, not you, and you have no business trying to get her back. She is your EX, not your current girlfriend, and her affections lie elsewhere. She already has enough on her plate...
this is the situation im am in now, i have fallen in love with him and he always says he loves me and we went to a partyy at the weeekend But its complicated because we agreed I would stay with my ex while we are still seeing each other because all of the people around us would get funny about it,...
He could just be genuinely happy for you but if you want to be sure it would be best to talk with him and find out how he feels.
aww. ok, if you guys talk on the phone alot, keep that up. see if she'd be interested in coming out here in the U.S. if not, take a break from school (not saying to drop out!!!), and go visit her. another alternative is for you guys to meet up some where when you both have free time, and during that...
Because its the force that makes you fully human. Love, real love, is self evident, it's something you can see, even in the dark. If you find that you should hold onto it.
No. If they end up splitting, you have a far better reason to date her than if you are the reason they split.
Call the police, or tell a adult. .No one has the right to beat you (not even your parents) and you obviously should let your parents know what is going on and they will take care of it. If they decide to phone the police your parents can put a 'Cease and Desist' order against your boyfriend and...
probably not because if you two were meant for each other, you wouldn't break up as much. maybe next time you do break up, maybe leave it that way and find someone else.
let him down gentley.. talk to him but in a friend way but if he gets seriouse then just dont say anything back... tame him! :) haha
It's hard to forget them sometimes but other times it's easy. When I broke up it was easy. But when you love I'm not sure but you just have to forget. You know what they say when you really love him set him free.
There is no problem! It's called honesty and both of you should tell your mates as soon as possible that you are breaking off with them. Don't add salt to their wounds by telling them that you two have fallen in love. Dump them nicely and stuff and they'll get over it. maybe leave it a while though...
yes you should well in some cases but if you decide to just prove to your boyfriend that he should be able to trust you. Do you trust him?. When your in a relationship, your partner should be a priority. But you have problems of your own. You can be with him through his problems but you can't fix...
If you broke up because of your job than that shows what is more important and the relationship most likely will not work.
Maybe he just felt sorry for you. Or maybe he still likes you. Or maybe he was sad and he thought he'd feel better if he kissed you. You can never know for sure.
Forever !! Gotta have both signatures, one would think, otherwise either party could just divorce their mates willy-nilly at any time. An old saying comes to mind ... You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.
Well i have this problem also i was dating the guy i thought was the one i was in love and he never told me he was in love with me though so i never told him and that was the worst mistake of my life and then we broke up im always going to miss him and i will never get him back.............. SO...
Be flirtatious, dress nice, smell good, lean into them a little when talking with them. Just sending off little signals such as that is a obvious way to let them know without saying anything. Or you could be straight up about it all and kiss them first, you never know if they feel the same way...
if your only feelings for the person are of dislike and negativity, if they give you no good feelings or satisfaction in life then it isn't really worth it. Give it time and you may find the answer your looking for
rihanna only had 3 exboyfriends
Well Sit him down and talk to him ask hhim whats going on and why is he acting like this because you have the right to know
first of all think of what matters most to you and then try to save that one first. think of what will make you happy so that in the future you won't regret what you have done.
omg yes. why wouldnt she? if she is pregnant then she probably wont want you to know since she is your ex. she might just want to have an abortion without you knowing about it, or she is afraid of the repercussions that would come from telling you.
I think you have answered your own question, haven't you? You are so special, and you think this person is the greatest in the world, yet he doesn't rate you. How perfect the world would be if he loved you as much as you loved him? But that's the rub. He doesn't feel the same about you as...
Sometimes guys treat women like nothing because sometimes the man is too blind to see that the right girl is right in front of them. A: These types of men have a "Narcissistic Complex" , and only look at themselves and what they want as having any value, they often have a mellifluous approach...
Answer Some guys use this as an excuse to get outof relationship because they simply want to be free to do as theyplease. The best thing you can do is get on with your own life.Start going out with friends and having fun and start dating again.There is a possibility if he sees you aren't sitting at...
just be clear! sheesh! if it's breaking up then it's breaking up. don't confuse the issue!
I would get to know my friend first and try my best to not give them any reason to feel the need for me to ask for forgiveness. I'm just that respectable, honorable, and a great friend. So, I would do anything that would be so unforgiving or need forgiving. If I did do something, it was for a...
Just be honest. Honesty can cause pain, but in the end, you will have whatever you are thinking off you mind.
It is a stated or implied bond between two people, who have set between themselves a measure of spoken or unspoken rules, commitments, and/or standards. It can exist between lovers (male and female, male and male, and female and female), coworkers, friends, family, and acquaintances.
show her that she deserves you...spoil her...have sex withher...show her that you care
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Only he knows for sure but maybe he is not ready for a relationship at this time, he may not be interested in you the way you are him, he may be interested in someone else and he may just be telling you what he thinks you want to hear as to not hurt you but may trying to let you down easy.
Only he knows for sure how he feels but it seems he may not be interested in a relationship at this time or may not be interested in a relationship with you in particular. There are times we don't always know the reasons however, it is not worth wasting time worrying about it. Pick yourself up and...
Dump him, sweetie. He's trying to keep you on the line while he goes looking someplace else. Dump him NOW.
You can just tell her how you feel. Not sure what you mean by 'don't know what is wrong' You didn't make the question very clear.
yes he told me.who put this Question up ? answer please
"The heart was made to be broken. " zeequotes
you tell her ok so i guess you have feelings for me and your ex so which one of us do you want me or him give about three days to decied..(ps) if things dont work out i am free.my name for this site is softballqueen i am 13!!
Oh, please don't let my ex know that because it isn't true. Now if you are talking about your ex, you should just let them know how you feel.
Get a better look! but if the chemistry just isn't right then no point in trying
Well, if he is asking you to go around when his parent's aren'tthere I would probably conclude that he is using you. However is hedoesn't it may just be a coincidence it may be worth asking him Whytoday? Why then? It could help you feel more comfortable and if notlet the boyfriend know where he...
Well believe it or not... but yes, you still have feelings for your ex boyfriend. And i had the same problem... me and my ex hadn't talked for over 6 months and i had dreams almost very night about him, even when i was dating someone else. It just means your not completely over him yet and you miss...
he will make u dinner, be nice, and be really sweet
i think (im a girl so im really guessing :P) that a guy has this "need" of having a girlfriend. whether its to be popular or to gain affection i dont know... it could also be from pressure from friends or maybe the guy's just a player!
You have to ask yourself if you really feel there is going to be a reconciliation here as putting your life on hold for one person is really a big commitment. Regardless of how you feel try and see things for how they really are and how he talks to you and feels as well to really know if it is worth...
when the person ur with makes you happy no matta how you fell and sum1 who iz always there for you through the up and the downs. some one that is always there with you someone you trust.some you can tell your secrets to and not lie to them.some one can actually say i love you to with out bein shy to...
I believe so. The more you're with somebody, the more you can tell about them. From Sugarhoney: Also, if you really want to know something, or you cant quite remember something and you want to find it out. You may remember it in time. Or if you have asked your parents for something and they say ...
It is best to live your life and take things as they come. You cannot put your life on hold for what may never happen.
If the relationship has gone south then yes.
show her how much u love her and need her back in your life.... if she loves you she will come back... and say sorry to her for breaking her heart and promise her you wont ever break her heart again... and always tell her you love her...=)
Sometimes they really feel they don't want to hurt you but don't want to be with you either and most times we want to think they will come back but the chances as slim to none. It is best not to wait around what just may not happen.
She probably doesn't want anything to do with you, but if you insist, you have to start from square 1. Start off as friends & slowly build back up to a relationship.
There isn't a defiant way, but polygraph tests come close to detecting lies because they measure the bodies physiologic reactions to questions. Some people also indicate certain facial expressions, body movements, or start to release hormones in the adrenal glands, but it isn't a for sure way to...
Try talking with them and see what they have to say if that is what you would like. Let them know how you feel.
i would have to say... maybe. there are probably two reasons: he's either making you jealous... or really over you. Your question doesn't provide enough information to provide a worthy answer -- was your ex on the rebound when he became involved with you? Are there children involved? Is there money...
If you will get a boyfriend this year is something that you cannotpredict. You never know when you will meet someone special who willbecome your boyfriend.
You do everything in your power to try and charm her and convince her she needs to be back with you.
Just give him some time. If he truly cared for you and wants you back, he will come to you. But if he doesn't, then you know he's not the one for you.
she should get really nervous or overly excited around you. When agirl is flirting, she will either talk to you constantly or stayquite and look over at you more times than you can count.
You could report the dog stolen. If the report is legit the police will let you know. Better ask them what they think after they review your documentation so you don't get into trouble for a false report later.
i would strongly suggect you to think about your motives. why were you with your long term boyfriend for so long? was it because you desperately wanted a boyfriend and he was the only one you could find? did you really "fall in love" with him? would you want to get married to him? what about the...
if you feel pressured up by your girlfriend. Like you MUST call her, you MUST do this to please her. When you're getting tired of her. When you see your girlfriend and the first thought would be something "Oh god," or "Oh no" oorrr something with those lines. Realize how you feel for her and then...
it is literally impossible to understand men. women for years have struggled and strained but the conclusion most come to is that we really have no idea.. he's a bloke. he didnt know that he still wanted you and now he knows he's mad at himself for letting you go, and probably at you for moving on...